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You may have noticed that I have started monitoring comments. I will not be taking that off. Some of you are haters and hate me. This blog is not me in my entirety. I find it very short sited of people to think that because they read this, they have any sort of context in which to base their idea of who I am. I also find it very hard to think of things to write of late. Because I know that some of you are out there hating. If you have hateful things to say to me perhaps you should stop reading my blog. You know, there are choices in life. One being reading others blogs. The another being an ass. I am a happy girl and if that upsets you, that is sad.

I would also like to define forgiveness. Forgiveness is releasing the pain that a person has caused in your life. A person could rape another and forgive the rapist. However, the person who was raped does not have to let the rapist back in their life. Forgiveness is different from trust. A rapist will never have trust again. I have forgiven the people that have hurt me. However, I will not be letting you in my life. I do not trust you.

Also, I find I must state as I have before, that being a relative does not make you my family. I choose who I let in my life and I call them family. Good people. Honest people. Trustworthy people. They are my family. I love myself and my family enough to protect myself from unhealthy, toxic people. I mean it.